If I don't know you, and you add me randomly; then start asking me for me to join some competitive team. I will be a bit volatile when I deny your request. I'm not interested, I play games casually. If you want to mess around in some older games and have fun, then I'm your man. I prefer to play with people who are going to be actual friends, instead of demanding my full attention at random points. I have a job, I can't dedicate any time towards that bs.