Everyone needs to know this. Pain, sorrow, suffering, and agony are not bad things that happen. When one of these things happen you learn from it. With wisdom, comes great pain, and suffering. When someone dies, even if you don't know them, it can help you realize life can end at any second. When a loved one dies, that had an impact on your life, you learn from their image; You learn not only what they taught you but what you learn from what they taught you. When you loose a friend, it might not mean you need to change, it might not mean that you're a bad person, it might not mean anything, it could just be something you can't control; When that happens you learn to be greatful for the people you have. If you are struggling with money, or are in poverty, you learn not only to be greatful, but to be nice. When someone muders a friend, girlfriend, father, mother, brother, sister, grandparent, aunt, uncle, or cousin, You learn not vengance, but you learn that killing isn't an answer to everything; You learn that sparing a life, means more than ending one. When you are being robbed, you don't learn fear, or hatred, you learn to be couragous, you learn to be brave. When you find out you're depressed, or suffer from psycosis, you don't learn to stay away from people, or how to be happy, but you learn to help people who are like you. There are many things that can be stated, but I think everyone can learn from this.